A Heart for Others: Nancy Stillerman’s Inspiring Journey
Inspired by her first dog, Nancy found a place to thrive and a purpose to serve.
In 1968, resident Nancy Stillerman and her husband Steve faced a turning point. Life in Manhattan was exciting, but their growing family—and their 125-pound Old English Sheepdog, Barnaby—needed more space. When their landlord refused to renew their lease due to Barnaby’s size, the search for a new home began.
Although Nancy hesitated to consider Connecticut, seeing Greenwich as too far from the city she loved, the move quickly felt right. The welcoming community and open spaces proved to be the perfect setting for their family. Barnaby thrived, and the family soon found themselves fully immersed in their new life.
“Barnaby was not just a dog; he was a gentle soul who sparked my lifelong passion for working with animals,” Nancy shares. The move to Greenwich not only gave Barnaby room to roam but also opened the door to a future filled with purpose and connection.
The Healing Power of Animals
Nancy’s love for animals became a central theme in her life. Over the years, she dedicated herself to causes that supported and celebrated dogs. Serving as vice president of Adopt-a-Dog for 14 years, Nancy helped countless dogs find loving homes. Later, she was part of establishing the Fairfield County branch of The Good Dog Foundation, where she helped train therapy dogs to provide comfort and companionship to those in need.
Her Portuguese Water Dogs, both certified therapy animals, made regular visits to places like Greenwich Hospital and Silver Hill Hospital. The joy these visits brought to patients and staff left a lasting impression. “The dogs were the real volunteers,” Nancy says with a smile. “I was just the one holding the leash.”
These experiences cemented her belief in the healing power of animals. “Watching a dog connect with someone—whether they are ill or simply in need of a moment of comfort—has been one of the most fulfilling parts of my life.”
Finding Purpose Through Community
Shortly after moving to Greenwich, Nancy immersed herself in the community. From organizing enriching field trips for local children to developing programs for families through the Young Presidents’ Organization, she discovered the joy of bringing people together.
“I have always enjoyed staying busy,” Nancy explains. “As an only child, my parents made sure I was constantly engaged with lessons and activities. That sense of purpose has stayed with me.”
Her volunteer work has spanned decades, from authoring a nursery school cookbook to running an art gallery in Greenwich. Each project showcased Nancy’s boundless energy and commitment to making a difference.
Philanthropy at Edgehill
When Nancy moved to Edgehill in 2018, it did not take long for her to jump in. She became an active member of Edgehill’s teams for both the Hope in Motion Walk
and the Walk to End Alzheimer’s, contributing to their fundraising efforts. Working hand in hand with Edgehill’s dining and activities teams, Nancy has also helped organize and host elegant, successful fundraisers, including silent auctions and lobster roll dinners, to raise money for Alzheimer’s research and support patients at Stamford Health’s Bennett Cancer Center.
Nancy’s enthusiasm is infectious. “People joke that when they see me coming, they know I am going to ask for a donation,” she laughs. “But the generosity of this community is incredible—everyone wants to help.”
Her efforts have helped build deeper connections among Edgehill residents. “We have created something truly special here,” Nancy reflects. “Through volunteering, we have formed lasting bonds and come together for a common cause. It is wonderful to feel like we are all part of something bigger.”
Staying Active and Inspiring Others
Nancy embodies the power of purpose and connection. Her days are filled with meaningful activities, from serving on
Edgehill’s Film Committee and Food & Beverage Committee to volunteering as a reader at the Children’s Learning Center Head Start program. Surprisingly, the latter has become a particular source of joy. “I did not think I was a ‘kids person,’” Nancy admits with a smile. “But these children are so curious and motivated—it is one of the best parts of my week.”
For Nancy, volunteering is about more than giving back; it is about living fully. “Staying active and connected enriches your life,” she says. “You never know what new experiences might spark joy until you try.”
Her message to others, especially younger generations, is uplifting: “Discover what lights you up and pursue it wholeheartedly. Volunteering is not a chore—it is a chance to find purpose and passion. When you love what you do, it becomes contagious, and that is how you truly make a difference.” Making a difference in the lives of others is at the heart of Nancy’s journey, and it extends to her deep love for animals.
A Companion in Luna
Edgehill, a pet-friendly community, offers residents like Nancy the opportunity to welcome beloved pets into their homes, adding even more warmth and companionship to their lives. During the pandemic, Nancy adopted a beautiful white cat named Luna, and the two have grown incredibly close. Luna quickly made herself at home, claiming the second bedroom and becoming the perfect roommate. Her presence continues to bring Nancy comfort, joy and a sense of connection, further enriching her life.
A Legacy of Giving
Reflecting on her journey, Nancy credits Edgehill with helping her maintain a fulfilling and purposeful life. “This community keeps me inspired,” she says. “There is always something meaningful to do, and the support here makes it possible to take on new challenges and thrive.”
Nancy Stillerman’s story is a testament to the power of staying engaged and embracing opportunities at every stage of life. Whether she is spearheading a fundraiser or sharing a moment of joy with others, she reminds us that giving back is not just a choice—it is a fulfilling way of life.